Welcome to HopeLostFound

I am hoping you find some peace and quiet in my silly blog.

I tolerant no bullshit, seriously, no homophoboia or trasphobia or any anti-queer or anti-lgbtq shit, be fair. This world is unfair as is, don’t make it worse.

I make mistakes. So don’t expect perfection.

I do not support unethical shit nor do I want to get into big fights. I’m tired and dealing with painful chronic illness, please leave me alone.

I just want my silly shit to be posted. I have an art blog.

No links.

Go find it yourself fuckers, or dm me and I’ll give you a link! New friend!

I am not mean, I love you guys. I am a silly Lil person.

I make ugly and fucked up shit. Don’t expect happy stuff, but it’s made with love. So it has loving parts.

I am an adult, I expect you youngish people to be honest with your age bracket. Don’t say your age.

Lovingly, HopeLostFound

notthegrouch:

were–ralph:

were–ralph:

were–ralph:

were–ralph:

the catholic old white guy asked me to explain lgbtq+ to him and it was honestly kind of funny

“okay! you have 15 seconds to explain non-binary to me if there are only male and female genders”

me: if you lost your genitals would you still feel like a man?

“no”

would you feel like a woman?

“no?”

so you wouldn’t feel male or female

“yeah what’s your point?”

So, you wouldn’t fit into the gender binary of male or female? :)

him:

“so non-binary just means not feeling male or female?”

Yeah basically

“so why do they use “they” so much”?

if you were a woman would you want to be called a man?

“no…”

And the opposite?

“no…”

Why why would you want someone to call you male or female if you’re not male or female then?”

it’s not a perfect way of thinking but i had 15 seconds and i think it got the point across

if someone challenges you to break through a wall within fifteen seconds, you use a wrecking ball, not precision tools. I think you did marvelously.

thaumasilva:

lgbt-tiktoks:

homunculus-argument:

Hey btw I don’t know who needs to hear this, but those adults telling you that your teen years are the best years of your life? Yeah I don’t know what the hell they’re smoking, either. I’m 29 and every once in a while I just sit here and think “man, it sure sucked to be 14. Glad I never have to do that again.”

recomvery:

TV is not how longterm relationships are. TV is supposed to stimulate you, so you stay interested and watching. It’s not normal to yell at each other and have drama every 5 mins like on reality tv. But it’s not normal to have someone treat you like you’re in a romantic movie, like you’re on your honeymoon 24/7 either. You won’t spend every single minute together or have the perfect relationship. Longterm relationships are the people that genuinely like each other, that can live in harmony, that love peace and consentual intimacy. That can give each other space to be alone, with friends, persue their own hobbies.

ka-72:

kryspiekream:

hoarderofliterature:

kryspiekream:

fella-lovin-fella:

“there are only two sexes, it’s literally third grade biology!” and pronouns are taught in kindergarten and you dont seem to understand those either

ok its literally this

this is why, when someone tells me “there are only two sexes, it’s basic biology!” my favorite response is to ask “what, you never made it to advanced biology?” like don’t load the gun and then hand it to me lmao

you. yes. you get it

sosuperawesome:

Galaxy Cat Pins // Chocolate Raisin

sinnerjosie:

spitblaze:

considering how many transmascs were legitimately way angrier BEFORE starting T and have since calmed down significantly have we perhaps considered that maybe the reason so many cis dudes are angry and aggressive isn’t because of testosterone but maybe. like. personal issues. unmet needs. a social climate that teaches them that there are only like three acceptable emotional outlets for men max and one of them is being angry and shouting

so one thing i used to say and deeply regret now is that testosterone made me angry. because as soon as i got on tblockers and e, i became wayyyy less angry. and like, i thought it just made sense, cause 1+1 equals 2 right?

but then i met trans men and trans mascs who talked about how their their emotional experiences changed and i realized that not only was saying that invalidating and shitty but also just totally wrong.

because yeah, i wasn’t as angry anymore, but i was sad ALL the time. and after getting through the worst of the incredibly hormonal second puberty and learning to sort out my emotions, i realized that i was never really angry…i was just hurt. deeply hurt from all the lies i was told and how much i internalized that i was fucked up. hurt because the people who should have loved me unconditionally, laid out incredibly toxic conditions and treated me like garbage.

so yeah. it was personal issues the whole time. anyways, cis men, go to fucking therapy cause if you’re mad all the time, then you’re probably super fucked up.

lezzian:

multi-national corps make big bucks selling merchandise with the orange&pink lesbian flag on it but the person who made it is currently HOMELESS.

ALT

emily gwen needs money. give them money. stop giving disney and faceless businesses who sell cheap, imported, low-quality crap produced with probably child or slave labour. give your money to emily gwen.

memeuplift: